We've all been there. Things are heating up and you both know exactly what you want to happen next. One of you whispers those five crucial words: "Do you have a condom?" and the other produces one (or, better still, several) triumphantly. You're happily getting it on when you realize the condom tore or slipped off...
Condoms are easy, cheap, and offer protection against STIs and accidental pregnancy. Here's the thing—they only work if you use them the right way. To help you do that, we've teamed up with Melissa White, CEO and founder of Lucky Bloke, to tell you how to avoid the six most common condom problems.
1. Help, the condom broke!
The good news is there are many ways to reduce the chance of a condom breaking. If you find yourself dealing with a broken condom situation, here's what to do.
What now? If you realize right away (before anyone has gotten close to climaxing) that the condom broke, you can throw out the broken condom and try another one. Before you start again though you should make sure there isn't something wrong with your condoms. Are the packages intact? Are your condoms expired? Were they exposed to extreme heat or cold? If not, you can use a new condom and just watch out for breakage.
If there's a possibility of preejaculate or ejaculate, the safest thing to do is take emergency contraception (EC). You can take EC up to five days after you have unprotected sex but most kinds work better the sooner you take them. Here's how to get some. You may also want to get tested for sexually transmitted infections (STIs) if you're not sure of your partner's status. (And remember, you definitely can't tell if someone has an STI just by looking!)
So it doesn't happen again: Condoms can work very well when you use them right. If you've had a condom break, here are a few things to check to make sure it doesn't happen again.
- Size. When someone repeatedly has experiences with condoms breaking, it may mean the condom is too small. This doesn't always mean a guy requires a large condom, though. A different kind of standard (or medium) size may work.
- Lube. Using lube can make using a condom a lot more pleasurable. Pro-tip—apply a small amount of lube to the penis before applying the condom. (If you are using the proper size condom, this should not cause the condom to slip.) Use a generous application of lube to the outside.
- Packaging. It's important to make sure you're opening the condom package carefully. We know you may be tempted to rip it open or use your teeth to get things going ASAP, but opening the package the wrong way can tear the condom.
- Putting it on. To make sure you put the condom on correctly, be sure to pinch the tip while rolling it on. It's important to leave room for the finale! Read more on care2.